Spot, and block bullying behaviours before they hurt you.
Your temper is the only thing you don't get rid by losing it Pic id-work When dealing with a bully, you have to stay calm and polite, or you could end up in a slanging match, which the bully will win; they’ve had the practice. Or you'll be accused of being the real bully People… Continue reading No one thinks well when angry
Not to warn of a potential bully's behaviour is a failure in the duty of care I’m location managing on the third series of “Between the Lines”, especially challenging because the lead characters are no longer in the police force, so they have no power, making the scripts much harder to write: they are all… Continue reading Warnings are critical
Whether you are the CEO or a security guard, respect should never be optional. Pic: master1305 istock A union member complained to me that their manager was always short with them when they asked a question. Considering that part of their job entailed asking this manager questions, it was becoming a big irritant. I suggested… Continue reading Respect should never be optional
They test you to see if you will stand your ground Pic: Drazen Zigie At the start of a career in something like TV, you’re keen, but you need to remember there are those who will exploit both how desperate you are to do well and your inexperience. Read your job spec before you start… Continue reading Avoid being bullied in your first job, your dream job, or when promoted.
To teach people how to spot those who plan to hurt them before they get hurt. Pic: Kieferpix Most people still think adult bullying starts with the abusive behaviour. It doesn't. It starts with grooming, boundary testing - as bullies don't want to pick on an assertive person by accident and get called out. They really are… Continue reading Why I created bully-proofing
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oeWqQN3snCU Went to see this last with a mate, it's brilliant - the mental health nurse so reminded me of my aunty Chris If you've ever thought badly about someone who has Tourette's, this film explains it all and is very funny. The mental health nurse reminded me so much of my aunty Christine -… Continue reading I Swear
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N61aNQYAnBY Known for her courage, Virginia couldn't admit she'd been trapped again. And unfortunately, it seems I was right; it was her ex-husband, Robert Giuffre, who pleaded guilty to domestic violence against Virginia in 2015 in Penrose, Colorado, where they were staying to avoid the press at home. Known for her courage in bringing down… Continue reading I thought her suicide might be to escape another abuser
The plan is to hold a "How to Stop Sexual Harassment Workshop" once a month. They will continue to be free and open to all. I did catastrophize that representatives of the manosphere would turn up to disrupt and deny that sexual harassment is an issue, or claim that men are the real victims of… Continue reading Thanks to everyone who came to last night’s How to Stop Sexual Harassment Workshop.
How to handle all kinds of sexual harassment. All of the illustrations are by Gleb Kasarenko. Learn to spot sexual harassers before they start to manipulate you. Come and find out how my teaching works at this FREE 1-hour workshop today at 7pm: https://tinyurl.com/mu76825t
No one should touch someone else without permission The workshops I deliver can protect you from all forms of bullying, even the most intimate. Come to this FREE workshop, in which I teach attendees how to spot a sexual harasser before their campaign of harassment begins, demonstrating the methods I use to completely bullyproof people,… Continue reading How to Stop Sexual Harassment: will protect you, your family, your members, your employees, and your business for life.